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Private Lives Podcast: How do I start dating again after my wife’s death?

 I am still only 27 and feel ready to meet a new partner, but I don’t know how to tell our two small children, let alone raise the subject with any woman I might be interested in.


About 18 months ago, and after four years of happy marriage, my wife suddenly died. I am still only 27 and believe I am ready to start dating again. But I have no idea what to do with things still connected to my wife. Would it be disrespectful to stop wearing my wedding ring? Is it normal to keep the photos of us on display around the house? We have two children and I will never let them forget her, but how do I tell them that I am dating someone new? I haven’t got round to mentioning my situation to any women I may like to go out with in the future. When is a good time to talk about it?

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  1. This is emotional. It’s not going to be easy, but he has to love on and help himself survive. Love is not really what people see it as.


  2. Wow. This is very hard working and the lady’s voice and the background music is awesome. Congrats for this team. wow.


  3. Wow. This is very hard working and the lady’s voice and the background music is awesome. Congrats for this team.


  4. I love this. The handlers of this Bloomgist are extremely creative. I love this.

    Also the voice of the lady is awesome and the background music gives such a special effect. God bless you all


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