For most of us, sexual desire is exciting and affirming when reciprocated. Why, then, do some men want to have sex with people who do not desire them?
This has happened with every man I’ve liked in the past decade. It’s disheartening and I’m starting to resent my friends.
The dachshund is becoming more popular – partly because they are a good fit for our increasingly cramped dwellings.
‘I earn 10 times more than the day rate in my normal job just by talking, playing and having sex’
If temptation comes your way, make the most of it by behaving as if you’re having an affair – but with your partner.
Move on. You are nothing more to him than a pleasant diversion from his problems, Mariella tells a woman who doesn’t want to give up an affair.
In March, Nigerian novelist Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie published Dear Ijeawele, or A Feminist Manifesto in Fifteen Suggestions, to much acclaim. But some Africans argue that the feminist movement is a Western import.